kei-survivor replied to your photoset “Student’s orientation event this evening. Hope I’m dressed adequately…”
You look really cute! I’m loving the dress and the coat! Love the whole look right now : <3
Thank you! :D
mirahimage replied to your post “I’ll get the letter to get my gender officially changed (requirement…”
EXCITING!!!! I talked with Dr. Kaufmann today (was there to have my levels checked), I’m probably having my therapist write my name & gender change letter this week, but Dr. Kaufmann will write it for me if there’s an issue.
Yay, hope that goes well (it should, I don’t think there are that much doctors left that won’t write you the letter without proper reasoning).
I’ll get the letter to get my gender officially changed (requirement for name change) next week, yay :D
But choosing a name is really hard :0 Right now I use a short-form of my old name but that’s not that good (you may send me suggestions xP).
Aaand also the report that will allow me to go on HRT (if there are no medical complications - that I will know in december) will follow shortly after (or so he said).
Very exciting :)
mirahimage replied to your post “mirahimage replied to your post “Duh, getting misgendered sucks. I’m…”
Actually, California’s conditions are really pretty simple, except for the fact that I have to pay a bunch of money and technically I should be living there. Hopefully using my parent’s address will work.
Oh yeah. You always need money :( Here it’s first for the stuff you have to do to get the letter (and that can be really much, I’m speaking about 4 digits…) and then for the process of getting things changed again…
I hope using your parent’s address will work!
mirahimage replied to your post “Duh, getting misgendered sucks. I’m working at a uni and you can’t…”
I’m glad you’re able to change things so easily, and I hope you get your letter soon. I wish it were so simple for me, but being a foreigner living here makes everything so complicated.
Wait, so you have to get it changed in your home-state? With their conditions? That’s really awful.
glitterishfreak replied to your post “Duh, getting misgendered sucks. I’m working at a uni and you can’t…”
ugh that sucks… i hope it will get better soon :)
I’m sure it will. Thank you :)
Duh, getting misgendered sucks. I’m working at a uni and you can’t change your name and gendermarker until you’ve changed your legal name/gender (and that requires a certain letter, that I’ll hopefully get in the next weeks).
But I’m sending my emails (that’s a big part of my job, sending stuff around) from an unnamed address (e.g. firstname.lastname@example.org) and have my genderneutral/female name in the signature along with the female gendered job-description.
But most people that call just look up the employee-database and then I get the “Sir” :/
And I’m too afraid to correct them :/